I would like to disagree when you said that "In a way it's partly
the guys fault that were always getting pregnant. Sometimes you 
ask them to use protection and they refuse." I think that you 
as a woman should be strong enough to say no, it is your body 
nobody can make you do what you don't want to do.  If someone 
has a hard time saying no then they are weak, and need to get 
self empowered.  I'm not trying to be mean it's just that when 
you get older you're like enough is enough it's about me now 
and you don't let anyone run over you anymore.