If a women didn't have a "right to kill", She would probably 
think twice before having someone she doesn't REALLY know come 
into her home. 
 She might fight a little harder to have "Mr. Right" wear a 
condom knowing that she might end-up DEAD from a botched 
illeagal abortion. 
 When is it a good time to invite your date up to your apartment?

 In my opinion its when you can close your eyes and fall 
backward and know that he will catch you.
 You should know a lot about the person alone with you in your 
apartment.
 Have you ever tried to push a 200+ pound man with a bad 
attitude? Its pretty much impossible.
 No matter how you say it, saying that you only let people you 
completely trust come into your apartment, says that you think 
a lot about yourself and you take care to make sure you are 
safe. 
  People get their clues about how to treat you from how you 
treat yourself. 
If you and your date spend the entire dinner talking about how 
great you think you are and then you let him up without really 
knowing him, you are really telling him that you actually don't 
believe you are such a treasure 
and you will let a total stranger into your home.
  I don't like it when guys pressure me into being alone with 
them. It sets off warning bells that this guy wants one thing 
and I will soon be on my knees picking-up whats left of my heart. 
Thankfully I have been on 
my knees with my shattered heart 
but never after being made love to by one of these con artists. 
I  never have felt like a fool running into someone who stopped 
calling because they always ask the same thing, "why didn't we 
end up together?" 
(Translation- "why didn't you sleep with me?") And I always say, 
"I don't know..just lucky I guess- You didn't want it bad enough- 
maybe you had a date limit and I didn't fit into the schedule.")
 The old saying, "I'm not that kind of girl is laughable now but 
I have a new version. 
  When I start to get the, "aren't you going to invite me up" 
pressure I look confused and say something like, I think you are 
used to dating a different type of girl. When I know you and 
trust 
you. 
"I" will invite 
you into my home, you wont need to invite yourself."
 A lot of guys will stop calling after this but guess what kind 
of guys they are. Not the guys who REALLY ARE looking for 
someone special.

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