That is fine that you won't follow this guideline.  Likewise,
I am very unlikely to live in a redwood tree for 2 years in
order to save it.

Oh well,  I guess we won't get goodhuman points for 
these.  I (and probably you) do lots of other
good things and help the world in other ways.   We'll
get goodhuman points for these other things.

But,  let's recognize that those parents who do leave
their babies at home  (or stay at home with them)
are doing 'good'.

Incidentally, you've suggested yet another guideline
in your last message:

> Don't be away from your infant for extended periods
> of time.