I think using condoms is just fine. I don't mind it at all, 
except for the cost of it. Condoms are too expensive.
The rhythm method isn't safe enough to prevent pregnancy and 
getting tested isn't safe enough either. It takes awhile for HIV 
to show up in a test after being exposed. For men to get tested for 
std's is even less fun than wearing condoms. 
Have you ever been tested? They take a cotton swab and stick it
into the meatus which hurts.